I think it's possible. Our emotional response has to do with our perception, so if you can shift your perception to one of calm acceptance then everything you experience will go through that filter first and prevent negativity from forming. It has nothing to do with an evolved state of mind, it has everything to do with a trained mind. It does get easier with practice and soon that state of mind becomes the default state.
It starts with self awareness and learning to recognize emotion and what is igniting it. When you know the triggers, you can disarm them.
I know that I'm talking method here and you are talking about achieving a different state of being. You are capable of becoming a person who is always calm and accepting of others - kind of like Cain on Kung Fu (he's a good model of this way of being). That ability comes from mental discipline. This discipline does change how you are on all levels because the more you understand about emotion and perception and the more wise you become with your outlook and actions. Eventually you cross the line where you no longer respond to the same emotional triggers that you use to... in a sense that is an evolution.
The third possibility happens after you are practiced in the second option. In a way, these are like stages of growth.The situation you brought up is an interesting example, quite common in today's life. The options you described for cases are such:
First option - you take it personally and allow the situation to influence you heavily, this way you can lose alot of energy, especially if you snap back.
Second option - you understand that in this situation the coworker is in bad condition and you choose not to take it personally, you resolve the situation.
But you still lose energy this way, literally - usually i feel drained after dealing with such situations, even while keeping on cool and understanding mode of thinking.
Now, those two are the choices people are able make without any special training. I understand that with training calmness it is possible to lower the negative influence of that situation during second reaction.
What about this:
Third option - you are in the state of mind where you feel one with the world, the agression of your co-worker cannot touch you at all because you no longer know what that emotion is. In fact, your high spirits can influence him/her to change his/her own condition instead of snapping at you. I wonder if this one is possible?
An antidepressant only cures biochemical depression. If one is depressed because the way they perceive themselves and others then the only cure is for the person to change how they think.Interesting information, i'm hearing that more and more people are using andtidepressants, but i still think that the feeling of happiness and peace should have some "roots" in some knowledge, experience or awareness rather just to be induced by chemicals, otherwise one'd have to take them for all life long.
An antidepressant will get your brain back to biochemical balance, if that balance is off, but what you do once you get to that state determines whether that state will remain or not. Kind of like using AVS - which points your brain in the direction you want to go in but how long you stay in that state depends on what you are thinking.
More people are taking antidepressants because we, as a society, have not learned how to cope with stress. There is increased stress and pressure on people and our body chemistry has not adapted yet. Perhaps in several generations from now, our bodies will catch up and produce more serotonin. In the past, there was more emphasis on problem solving and this seems to have eroded in light of people going for the quick fix (which is often drugs, both legal and illegal). In the past, there was more family involvement in a youth's life - aunts, uncles, neighbors and parents.
I've got to run. I'll continue where I left off when I get back.
M.
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